I build large software systems and spend most days observing how technology, people, and incentives collide in the messy real world. I care about clarity, first principles, strong design patterns, and decisions that hold up under pressure. I'm drawn to the quiet work of understanding a problem fully, asking uncomfortable context questions, and staying with the complexity until the story makes sense.

Outside of work, I'm a mother, a lifelong learner, and a partner. I have a loving husband who inspires me and guides me, both in technology and in life. Together, we think deeply, challenge assumptions, and keep each other grounded while navigating ambition, responsibility, and care.

This website is where I write. Essays, notes, and working logs about systems, leadership, AI, modernization, execution, learning, and the human side of building things. The writing here is not marketing and not performance. It's thinking in public. Clear when possible. Honest when not.

This site also runs alongside the BVDLC book that Jarvis and I are finishing, so you'll find field notes, arguments, and lessons that later evolve into more formal work at bvdlc.ai.

Now Writing

The BVDLC Book

A practical framework for AI-era software delivery. Six accountable phases, context-first architecture, and the discipline to ship things that matter. Co-authored with Jarvis.

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Reading comes first

No infinite scroll. Each piece stands on its own. Come in, read, and leave with a clearer mental model.

Essay · AI Stack

Agents vs Skills vs MCP

A pragmatic framework for deciding how orchestration, knowledge, and integration layers work together in 2025, including real architecture diagrams and ready-to-use configurations.

Published Feb 2025

Framework · Leadership

BVDLC Phase 0

How I run the first 72 hours of any modernization effort - problem definition, success metrics, ROI, and risk before a single line of code is written.

Published Nov 2025

Guide · Claude Code

Claude Code Skills Quick Guide

Step-by-step instructions for writing reusable SKILL.md files, optional folder structure, and the five skills worth building this week.

Book · Frameworks

Building BVDLC

Field notes from the book I am co-writing with Jarvis: why AI era delivery needs six accountable phases, how the context folder works, and where bvdlc.ai fits.

Series Updated Dec 2025

Long-form

Essays & deep dives

Structured arguments, annotated diagrams, and decisions tested against messy constraints.

Short notes

Musings, experiments, observations

Frameworks

Instrument the invisible work

Building a scorecard for architectural cleanups so leadership sees compounding value instead of invisible toil.

Note · Feb 11
Frameworks

Phase 0 standups

Teams want to skip the context work, so we run short daily standups during Phase 0: alignment, metrics, blockers, sign-off. Keeps the urgency without losing rigor.

Note · Feb 6
Context Systems

Context check-ins

Replaced “prompt reviews” with “context reviews.” Once a month we prune anchors, templates, and examples - treating them like code.

Note · Jan 28
Frameworks

Book status

Part III pilot kit plus the context folder template now live on bvdlc.ai/resources. The new landing page here points to the same source, so docs only move in one place.

Note · Nov 12

Themes

Tags that keep me honest

Architecture in real life

Design patterns, integration scars, modernization playbooks.

Human systems

Trust, incentives, meetings that matter, unglamorous execution.

AI & tooling

Pairing with copilots, evaluation criteria, production guardrails.

Learning experiments

Small bets, reflection prompts, routines that survive real life.

Motherhood & ambition

Balancing care work with leadership without pretending it’s easy.

Health & meaning

Slow progress logs, what I’m reading, how I reset.

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